Tip for Grievers #1

Get a notebook.

There will be a plethora of details to take care of and your mind won't be working right (even if you think it is). Write everything down. Carry it everywhere. Tape stuff into it.

In the middle of the night when Tom died, I reached into a drawer that holds old unused notebooks and paper. I grabbed this notebook and began to make notes of what needed to be done, who called, how I was feeling, etc.

It was a week or so later that I realized what was depicted in the art on the covers (it's a two-sided notebook). Moreover, the title on the spine says "now apart, but together soon." That title, combined with the cover images, just make this a very bizarre death book. But it's what I pulled, so it's what I'll stay with.