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Tip for Grievers #17
(Caveat: If you're grieving a child, this may not be helpful.) If you can, spend some time around young kids. I had a fabulous morning...

Trish
Aug 10, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #16
Wow! 16! Okay, here's the lesson I learned today. It was an amazing experience. I was at a class called "Creativity as a Wellbeing...

Trish
Aug 8, 20191 min read
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Figuring this out with Eli
The setting up of a website is new to me. That's why I have Eli at my side.

Trish
Aug 1, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #15
Grab for the branch when you can. But you won't always be able to and that's okay. I debated a lot before posting this. I really don't...

Trish
Jul 22, 20192 min read
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Tip for Grievers #14a
Just a coda to my last tip: Even if you've grieved before, this time may be different. I didn't know that. When my parents died within...

Trish
Jul 10, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #14
Don't let anyone else tell you the right way to grieve or even imply that you are doing it wrong. You make your own journey as you go. We...

Trish
Jul 9, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #13
When you are able, say yes. Make a new friend, start a new activity, take a little trip, have a massage, color your hair purple(!)....

Trish
Jun 25, 20191 min read
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Tips for Grievers #12
Sometimes it’s good to shake things up a little, gently. I'm shaking today! Behind me is the beautiful and talented Areli Posada.

Trish
Jun 20, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #11
Don't stop talking about them. It may seem really painful at first, but long-term it's such a blessing. I learned this after my parents...

Trish
May 19, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #10
Groove when the joy comes. (Yes, how 70's of me.) It's a rainy day. Basketball is on TV. I made a great pot of tomato barley soup -...

Trish
May 18, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #9
Reach out when you are hurting. You will be heard and loved. Tuesday night was hard. I turned to all of you in my pain and I was so...

Trish
May 2, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #8
Some days (or nights) are just hard. They just are. Grief is very raw sometimes. For some reason, I can't stop crying tonight. Actually,...

Trish
Apr 30, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #7
Sometimes you need your illusions. When Tom died, he was in my arms as I tried to get him turned from his stomach, where he had fallen,...

Trish
Apr 16, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #6
As hard and scary as it may seem to set aside time just to be with your emotions and thoughts, try some meditation or a breathing...

Trish
Mar 22, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #5
Okay - maybe emotional Trish is the only one who needs this tip... You can feel emotion without being engulfed by it. I'm hearing the...

Trish
Feb 22, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #4
A stuffed animal is a good thing. Thanks to Lisa and Rachel I have the adorable Icie to cuddle. Don't mock me; little kids know a thing...

Trish
Feb 18, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #3
Read the reviews carefully before you go to a movie. I went to see Vice tonight with a friend. It was my idea to see the movie. But,...

Trish
Feb 17, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #2
From a friend: Get in a pool. Swimming laps in a pool is one place you can be overcome with a full body sobbing cry in public and no one...

Trish
Feb 13, 20191 min read
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Tip for Grievers #1
Get a notebook. There will be a plethora of details to take care of and your mind won't be working right (even if you think it is). Write...

Trish
Feb 12, 20191 min read
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